Give in to Passion

Here's the truth.  Bad marriage is boring.  Unfulfilled marriage is boring.  Marriage without honesty is boring.  Marriage without growth is boring.  And so you can think well that means monogamy is boring.  That's absolutely an absurd and superficial conclusion.     True marriage is the most exciting, the most dynamic, the most challenging, the least boring thing in the entire world.  If you're not growing, you're going to get bored with yourself and your partner.  And novelty with somebody new for six months or a year, or two years, will take care of it and you're going to be right back to the same situation again.

 Your partner's job is not to keep you interested.  Your job is to keep yourself interesting and growing by being a dynamic human being, not thinking that the marriage is supposed to somehow fill you up. But the marriage, every day, by definition, is based on who you bring to the marriage bed.  Who you bring to the kitchen table.  And if who you're bringing, meaning yourself, isn't fulfilled, isn't full of love, isn't full of passion, isn't full of enthusiasm, isn't full of courage for life, of course you're going to have a boring marriage.  But it's not because marriage is boring.  It's because you're boring.  It's because you're not leading your life as a true spiritual warrior.  

BREAKTHROUGH VIEWS ON LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS

- Embrace your sexuality
- Find the keys to living a passionate life
- Find out why you are mysteriously attracted to certain people
- Be pursuable and getting a man to commit
- Interpret what your lover really means
- Overcome the hardest challenge to making relationships work
- Have your marriage take you to your highest emotional and spiritual goals

It goes back to the notion that the only way to really be a person and to have a sense of self is to give up yourself.  Is to give that up.  And to have the security I guess to  say okay, have it, take me...   and to be able to give wholeheartedly to passion, and to give wholeheartedly to the other person's passion, and   in that release of self, there can be a tremendous recovery or gaining of  solidity and grounding in a sense of a person that  can come from that. 

But most people have never been taught how to create lasting passion in a relationship.  One of the greatest challenges in life is not getting what you want, but it's continuing to want what you have.  

See it's easy to long for, lust for, desire what you don't have.    Enlightenment, spirituality is learning to embrace what you have and when you can sexually long for and desire the woman you have in your life, or a woman longing for the man that she has, that's an enormous accomplishment.  Few people achieve that.  That's greatness. That's bringing God's light, love into the physical body.  And loving your partner more as the years pass.  

 So it is possible in marriages today to keep the passion alive.   But we have to be able to identify, what do women need today.  What do men need today.  And by identifying those needs and satisfying 'em, guess what.  This fantasy that we have that a couple can be married and have lasting passion can actually become a reality.